Doomed to Fail

Ep 22 - Part 1: The wild life of Gypsy Rose Blanchard

Episode Summary

We first published this episode a year ago and WOW things have changed for Gypsy since then! She's out of jail, she was married and flaunting her marital bliss, and now she's getting a divorce. She's been on tons of podcasts, shows, and all over the news. We're just happy that she's happy.

Episode Notes

We first published this episode a year ago and WOW things have changed for Gypsy since then! She's out of jail, she was married and flaunting her marital bliss, and now she's getting a divorce. She's been on tons of podcasts, shows, and all over the news. We're just happy that she's happy. 

Episode Transcription

Hi Friends! Our transcripts aren't perfect, but I wanted to make sure you had something - if you'd like an edited transcript, I'd be happy to prioritize one for you - please email doomedtofailpod@gmail.com - Thanks! - Taylor

 

hi friends this is Taylor from Doom to fail with a podcast that brings you every week bring you two episodes of

History's Greatest failures and disasters and this is episode 22 part

one if you're new just so you know we did our first 26 episodes as two two

stories per episode right and then they got really long so now we do it twice a week one story per U episode so the

first 26 episodes we're going to re-release as as one offs and this is one of them we're nearing the end so

episode episode this is terrible but I'm not going to start over so we're still going episode 22 part one was on Gypsy

Rose Blanchard and can I tell you how much stuff has changed between the time that we actually published this actually

almost exactly a year ago on May 29th 2023 and now it is May 10th

2024 um Gypsy Rose is out of jail she got out of jail with a flourish was

married married to a man who she is now divorced from and now she's living this fabulous single life out in the world so

um lots of stuff changed since this episode aired and you can definitely Google her to find out more but here's

the first part of I'm sure many many parts to come of the story of Gypsy Rose

Blanchard enjoy in a matter of the people of the State of California versus orthal James Simpson case number ba09

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country okay if you're good to go we're good to kick things off I'm good to go

let's do it cool I'm wait no I'm not fars I am fars um

welcome so far so good I've been at brunches and drinking Espress martinis

since like [ __ ] 10 amm so like I'm having a hard time welcome to Doom the fail the podcast where we explore two

stories one historical One True Crime around red flaggy relationships that we're doomed to fail I'm fars joined

here by Taylor hi Taylor hello there we go we got some pep we got some pep and

Taylor Stu we're we're both a little out of it well I'm a little out of it Taylor's hosting a lot of people and uh

yeah there's a lot going on in both of our lives at the moment so it's true I'm sitting on the floor in my bedroom but I felt uncomfortable sitting on the bed so

my computer's on the bed and I'm sitting on the floor yeah it's cool it's cool are those trays just random trays behind

you or what is that yes because I do have a plan so someday we're going to renovate this house and add like another

room and so I'll have to move my office so when I move my office in this hypothetical situation in the main in

the far future I want to do a dark blue wall with a mirror in the middle and then just like as many silver platters

as I possibly can around it so these are my first three silver platters so is

there like some symbolism to that nope I just have dope style and I want to put

it in my office you do have dope sty you do have dope sty I kind of I think I might steal that from you now actually

and personally with that um cool so Taylor I per usual uh I'm wondering who

goes first I think it's me I it's you okay it is me so why don't you share your drink and then I'll share my drink

and my story sounds good um so this week we are drinking the blood of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ wow okay man you

went all the way in went M cool wet your appetite for some Dead Guy blood we got

some wine okay no flesh just the wine

piece yeah yeah you don't want to like damp in the buzz by eating too we're just going to drink it's true it's true

so I um I told Taylor that it's it's been like a boozy Sunday for me it like

started with like brunch and having espresso martinis and it just kept

snowballing from there so I'm just going to call out Espress martinis as being delicious they're absolutely amazing

yeah one of the best drinks you can have in the morning not every morning like

mornings oh a nice weekend vacation morning long weekend morning you're right exactly um

so that would be uh my drink and I'm G to it has nothing to do with our story

absolutely nothing to do with my story but I did have Ros also this morning like fro fro like frozen Ros and the

name of the person we're talking about today is Rose oh well there you go it is

Gypsy Rose o didn't see that one coming did you I

didn't see that one coming see because because because it's so like different

right it's it's a abuse between child and parent versus like a couple

which is like a very very unique Dynamic so um the two parties here are going to

be Gypsy Road Blanchard and her mom Dee and I'm going to start wrath bat saying

that I'm so thrilled that Dei was just [ __ ] stamped to death and just gutted

like a fish like that was somebody who absolutely had be killed yes no she's

she's the baddy 100% like if anything I feel really bad that the people who

killed her were punished at all like it's just like it's it's so unjust to me so you're aware of the story right yes

okay okay so let's get into the main

characters like I mentioned we are talking about a mother daughter Dynamic the mother's name is going to be Dei the

daughter's name is going to be Rose or sorry gypsy gypsy Rose is what she's

referred to so Dei was born her name was Claude when she was born her name was

Claud Dean pet Tre in 1967 she was raised in a pretty large family with five siblings and um generally speaking

the assessment is that she's kind of a [ __ ] from birth like her family seemed to always dislike her and

apparently they later on suspected that she actually killed her own mother although nobody could prove anything

because why would you cuz everybody's dead right ended up dying her mom ended up dying so who cares but long story

short it yeah well there's actually a lot more to like how de's Dynamic with

her family plays out but we'll get to that in a little bit so de later on uh

ended up meeting a guy named Rod Blanchard when she was 24 and he was 17 I saw the guy I saw interviews with him

like he's like a normal dude like he's just like he's not what you would think

of as like an average 56 yearold guy like he's actually like super put

together like like yeah he was he was definitely like Dei definitely punched

above her weight by hooking up with Rod is what I'm gonna what I'm goingon to say I totally agree I feel like I that's

I gathered that from things as well like he was yes yeah yeah yeah he was a good dude and then obviously in this

situation so she's 24 he's 17 obviously it's like a one night stand situation where she gets knocked up Rod is clearly

trying to extricate him from the situation so he leaves DD obviously um

and then shortly after the separation Dei gives birth to their child Gypsy who

will become the other main character of today's story so Dei started being kind of a

helicopter parent in the worst way almost immediately with Gypsy so she was

convinced early on that Gypsy had different issues one of the main issues I heard with sleep apnea was one of the

things that she kept saying like Gypsy has sleep apnea so we have to take her to the hospital and she would take her to the hospital and do overnight like

testing with doctors all the time like was like over the top level of like trying to

fake this is water tayor where like I don't actually know how I feel about this like was the person crazy to begin

with or were they over the top parenting and then turn I I don't know what it is

I know that she turned crazy and insane eventually but I don't know how it started with like an infant like they

have sleep at like what are you talking about like kids don't get you know like

that's like for like old heavyweight overweight people like M anyways like my

assessment was like she probably started out having some sort of psychological issu to begin with and that's how it started the mom DD D yeah yeah yeah um

it's funny because I I was thinking about this how like I how little I take care of myself so recently Taylor it's

really funny because um I started tasting like copper in my mouth

constantly and like I'd occasionally just like I like like be in the shower and I'd spit and it' be like it would be

pink and I'm like what is going on like it's like my body is like deteriorating

before my eyes like it literally just started and I'm like how did this happen

but I'm I'm going to get it taken care of I'm G to taken care what what is that what could it be so I read that it could be gum

disease but a gum disease is usually preceded by hosis and like I don't have

bad breath like well the way you bre Breathe Right breath right there no you don't but I

just hope that you don't die so I'm glad to you should go to the doctor yeah yeah I'm going to go to the dentist like I was just thinking about it in the

context of like this woman would pursue such insane medical care for their for

her kid and I'm just sitting here like I don't know my [ __ ] gums are bleeding my heart stops every 3 minutes and I'm

just like whatever I'll I'll work it out whenever I work it out she was like over the top obnoxious so like to the extent

where like doctors would start telling people other doctors just like ignore her like just don't deal with this and

push her aside so that's basically like how the kind of came across just super

overbearing over the top and yeah she felt like she was doing the right thing as a mom or she was crazy I don't know I

don't know if it was doing the right thing his mom or she was crazy TBD what do you think I think she was crazy I

think it's I think she just wanted the attention but it but with like a child

with like a baby I mean it's like literal psych psychological disease the

m and by proxy like it's a thing like there's been other cases of it you know

so I researched that it's actually called Munch Housen syndrome by proxy well close I just missed the word

syndrome no I know because I'm telling you now because earlier on in the oh later on in the outline I wrote Munch

Housen by proxy syndrome and then I got to the very end and I was like let's research this disorder and then I found

out it's Munch Housen syndrome by proxy and I changed the end but not the middle

so when I say it I'm going to say it wrong and just not note that um so okay

going going back to the story so at one point in um in gypsy's childhood uh Dei

made her use a walker because she basically told her she had muscular distrophy and that she required required

it to walk and Gypsy like she does what her name's so stupid that it makes me

like I feel bad saying it's like oh Gypsy of course Gypsy believes what our Gypsy so it's like it's like it's any

kid that's from that's from a movie is it gypsy gypsy Ros Lee is like a person

oh okay I learn everything something new every time but like my point being like it's like a kid like any kid is going to

believe what their parents tell them and Gypsy believed it she believed that she had muscular distopy and she would use a

walker and later on she would use a a wheelchair as well so going back to part

of like how de was trying to manipulate this situation she started downplaying

how old gypsy was so for example there were stories of when she was eight or

sorry when she was 10 she would tell people that Gypsy was eight when Gypsy was 18 she would tell people that Gypsy

was 14 there's no consistency in terms of the age differential but she would constantly be changing this age because

she wanted her to seem younger and more ill and all all

basically oh my God suffice to say it's seems obvious but Gypsy was homeschooled

obviously which just gave all the control to the mom in one bit of interesting trivia I learned I also

literally just downloaded the Harry Potter game so it's like it's awesome and it relates to this as well is that

Gypsy only learned despite the fact that she was doing homeschool lessons she only learned how to read because she

taught herself so she could read Harry Potter books oh my God yeah this kid taught it herself how to read and

literally Harry Potter was the reason why and also the video game is fantastic Hogwarts Legacy if you don't have it go

download it talk about it before yes I'm sure we have so ultimately Dee would

fall in hard times and moveing with her father and her stepmother she really really apparently disliked her stepmom

and apparently that was a mutual feeling all around it was suspected that she was actually poisoning her stepmom with weed

killer it's crazy de was de was stepmom and and later on I'm going to get to

this like they moved away they moved into their own own uh house after this and then immediately the Stepmom got

well like she was sick she would always be sick horrible circumstances and then

Dei and Gypsy leave and all of a sudden she's fine and everybody's like yep she was poisoning her is basically they come

to so assume she killed her mom assume she poison her stepmom and she did what

we know she did to Gypsy that's who Dei was one thing that was interesting was

that her parents also thought the way she treated Gypsy was really messed up and they would constantly confront her

on it be like this isn't normal like it's clear she can walk on her own like she would like stand up like she would like do her own thing and she's like no

no she she needs a walker she has to be in a wheelchair it's like no she doesn't like we can see what she's doing like she's totally fine Weir so yeah and that

was part of the divide that resulted in Gypsy and Dei leaving the house and

moving to a part of New Orleans which is where the kind of picks up around like when Katrina was going to hit o which

was like a big part of this actually I'm I'm going to talk about that a little bit so I I kind of going to talk [ __ ] a

little bit like because I feel like DD's kind of like a type of person so she um she was

one of those like she's always on public assistance always on welfare never works just literally goes to the hospital

takes her like I partially think that's part of the problem is like that's what

gives her her life meaning and value is my kid is sick and I take care of my kid

and like there's nothing else there's no career there's no work there's no events conferences whatever like none

of that goes on and so she's like yeah I just do this one particular thing I just take my kid to hospitals constantly back

and forth apparently so you know I don't know I feel like that has to be at least a part of it like I said she subsist

subsisted on public assistance and child support from gypsy's Dad rod and yeah I

feel like that might be a part of why she did what she did was just like like I got nothing else going on like this is all I have I'm gonna make this kid more

important than she needs to be in our own way exactly that's exactly the disease yeah and like I wrote down here

like I could actually go into a lot of detail about all the various treatments that Dei sought for

Gypsy or the various ways that she was like regaled as his hero mom or Gypsy

was regaled as a hero child but it's like constant like it's it would be like

it' be like 17 hours of like me just talking about like like every time something would happen some weird

nonprofit in the middle of nowhere would give them an award for being the bravest child of the week and then it's just it

was just like nonstop like like she put on a really good act of how to make her

seem sick and also was noted that like when Gypsy didn't act as sick as Dei

wanted Dei would like squeeze her hands be like no no no per up it was like it was like it was like a dog like training

a dog like how to like act in this room space so that was another piece of this as well is like that's when it jumped

the ship from like eh maybe she was like concerned to like no no she was deliberately trying to make this child

seem more sick than she was it got to a point actually where

where doctors would perform surger this is crazy doctors will perform surgeries on Gypsy for things that like

didn't she didn't have they like kind of existed but like no reputable doctor would do if

they thought it existed to like that extent like if like if you have like web feet for example a doctor's not going to

say let's chop your leg off so we can fix your web feet like like that's the extent of like she had issues a little

bit a tiny tiny tiny bit and doctors would buy into it because like I said like the the doctor Community was like

just do what this woman wants like she'll never leave you alone just get her to shut the [ __ ] up and just do what she wants basically um which is like

really really gross and that kind of Segways into the Katrina bit because I

do think that when Katrina hit and people from New Orleans were relocated there was already an inherent um I feel

bad for them nature of this mix that with like being a mom being a single mom

with a child who has like 17 different types of leukemia apparently like it's just like like it compounds everything

like we already had a giving spirit as a society and Community after Katrina hit

layer that on to the fact that you think this child is incredibly incredibly sick and that's what ends up happening so that's a piece of this as well that I'm

going to like layer in here is Katrina hits they live in New Orleans and they're relocated to Missouri so yeah I

WR I wrote down how she would like get awards for just like basically existing from every nonprofit in Missouri they

also if you well I mean first if you actually do have a child who has a chronic ill this like it does it is your life it is all you can do you know but

that's not what happened no I know but that's what I'm saying that's why people like believed her you know that that's why she like saw that life and like

thought it was something that she could do because it oh I see what you're saying I see you're saying like if you

are that level of like mentally ill this is a very easy and plausible way to like

get that kind of validation from society so gross so gross yeah I know

you're literally using your child as like a gross pawn and I just the doctor being involved I think is wild like I

feel like I I know you need to like get second opinions and like think twice before you do things with doctors but doctors shouldn't they should know

better so they should know better so they did so there's one doctor I'll get to here in a moment that literally was

like no I I saw what was going on and I was like she does not have muscular

distrophy like she can walk like she has the musculature and the joints strength

and all that stuff to actually walk and be ambulatory on her own but literally

the other doctors in their community that guy actually called her other doctor so this is a Missouri doctor he

called her doctors in in Louisiana and was like does this girl have muscular distrophy like she's like no we did all

the tests she does not have it like he confirmed all this but then everybody was like in the doctor Community was

like this woman's a [ __ ] pain in the ass like like just leave it alone like don't don't deal with this like was like

what you know they have they're supposed to First no harm isn't that the yeah

like yeah like there's there's a part of it where it's like okay so if you're just like if this is your job being treated like your job and get why you're

like I'm just going to check out of it but it's more than a job when you're a doctor right like you go layer beyond that so like maybe this guy should have

had that level of commitment investment in this but uh no that that guy actually comes up a lot later on because he was

the only person who went on the record at some point saying I think this is Munch hous and syndrome by proxy like

that has to be what's going on this girl should be able to walk all the tests indicate should be able to walk so but

anyways so going back to going back to like what what ends up happening so they move to Missouri and again with Katrina

hitting everybody has this giving spirit they end up getting a house for free

through Habitat for Humanity um with wheelchair ramps and everything like those are newsworthy right so the media

starts paying attention to in Gypsy you know they it's like they film them

walking into their new house or rolling into their new house whatever it is it's a whole love that [ __ ] it's like it's like oh here's like a single mom with a

very very sick child who you know is is getting something in life they would constantly get free stuff so they would

get fre get like Disney to concerts she was one of the makeawish foundation kids

so she would get like whatever she wanted from there at this point it seemed as though DD's expectations of

their life experiences were basically entirely dependent on Gypsy being so

super sick like of course G not super sick then we don't have this dope life

so one thing to note at this point is Gypsy has no idea how old she actually

is oh my God like I mentioned her mom keeps downplaying race so there's one story where her

dad who like tried to be involved actually again like this guy's not a [ __ ] yeah totally he wanted to like

call her and congratulate her on her 18th birthday and D goes this is a quote

she goes okay but don't tell her how old she is because she thinks she's 14 what crazy so that's where I would

say that D isn't the greatest guy in the world like come on you didn't you didn't

think was sus here like but he thought that she was sick too right like he believed her yeah he did he did yeah he

was involved but not involved to the extent of like I've been in the ER for the last eight weeks you know like like

it's like how can you doubt that how can you doubt is it is it genetic at

all I don't know I don't know I just wonder if like he could have been like

oh well may our family has it that's weird I don't I don't know well she she said he had she she said that um gypsy

had like muscular distrophy that she had cancer so she would um shave I was going

to get to this a little bit later I'll bring it up now she would shave her head it's awful yeah she would shave her head

to make her seem like she had cancer and this I didn't actually write down in the outline she had her um her saliva glands

removed and so because of that yeah she had her SL glands removed I forgot like

who did this what doctor did this but like she had that done and apparently I don't know what the SLA glands do

outside generating saliva but apparently it has a pretty dramatic impact on the Health and Longevity of her teeth so her

teeth literally all fell out after she had her s so she looked dude imagine

this you're looking like a 14-year-old girl bald head yeah when you when you lose your teeth you lose your face yeah

yeah bald head no teeth it's just gum staring at you and it's like like of course she has leukemia of course she

has whatever disease the mom says right like did she do that on purpose her teeth would fall out she didn't do it on

purpose because her teeth would fall out what I read was that she would um apparently Gypsy would like drool was

like I don't I don't totally understand but apparently just to a Dro and the mom was like over it and for some reason or

some how she convinced a doctor to remove her saliva gland something I'm like that has to be that had to be like a procedure done in the Philippines or

something like it can't be like a that's so serious of a thing yeah oh my God

yeah no she was horribly abused like that's the thing that's like that precedes every discussion of what ends

up happening on DD is like she was a monster I wonder are you going to talk more about Munch CH syndrome epoxy no

I'm you know what I probably should have done a bunch of research on that but like I I I got to the point where I like

was like I'm calling this the wrong thing and that's basically it so I I wonder I mean I I feel like well most

psychology is like new you know in the past like 100 years or 200 years or whatever I wonder how many times this

happened like in the history of the world where like a parent has been like I need help because I have this

child whatever you know or like had a little bit of attention and then like continue to do it or like maybe they

were like oh my my baby died and I got a ton of attention so they just like did it again you know stuff like that I

wonder I mean I'm sure it's happened before this feels like an extreme

version of that like it is but like I don't know I feel like it's in the news every couple years someone kills their

kid yeah yeah I can believe that having surgery like getting to the point where you do surgery and stuff is like kind of

intense but oh yeah and that's 100% on the doctors that's 100% on the doctors

100% yeah totally agree like I don't know how you convince a doctor to take the [ __ ] saliva glands out of a child

but that's crazy crazy I mean that was a reason why she lost her entire teeth again I don't know what the dynamic is I don't know why saliva glands what that

has to do with like Teeth longevity but she that happened yeah so and you see

the pictures if you look at pictures of her you can see she has yeah yeah it was awful yeah like I

was I was like I wrote here I was like I was like she gave birth to a perfect healthy baby and turned her into like

this crazy disabled person through this treatment it's like it's insane to how

you can how you can do that to someone yeah yeah and and there was this one

physician in Missouri who was like ran blood tests on her was like her blood tests were all normal we did ran tests

on her standing up and her ambulatory skills and they're normal she's normal like there's nothing wrong with her

Mobility whatsoever and that was the point when like everybody was like she called her the doctor in Louisiana was

like yep everything's normal and other doctors like stop it like just drop it like just drop the topic This Woman's

[ __ ] pain in the ass like she'll never leave you alone if you don't drop this and he just dropped it which like

again I'm over two minds of it as a professional like it's not my fight to win but it's like as a doctor isn't it

kind of your fight to win I don't know it's 100% their fight to win that's their job yeah you know they took on

that responsibility when they became a [ __ ] doctor you know like you can have my job but no one's going to die if

I don't do my job you know but if you have a job where someone's gonna die if you don't do it then you need to [ __ ]

do it as you know what though Taylor as famous podcasters don't you think that

we save like one suicide a week by being of lives have been saved by listening to

this there you go dozens I mean just like regular lives like people were like what is my purpose and listen to this

and they're like now I have a purpose I'm not sure why the the crown we wear

is heavier than you think I think we all five of you stop down playing it bless us bless

you bless you five no no no we're we're we're blown up we're going to be famous um so going back to the story Gypsy

eventually reached the age where she started having an interest in boys and wanting to do things other than just basically pretending to be an invalid

her entire time and she actually I'm so sorry to yell about you say reached to

the age like she doesn't even know how old she is so like I think it happens right like it's

like it's I know but I started liking girls like I didn't know how old I don't remember how old I was it was like one day you wake up like oh wow like that's

cool um no I'm thinking what I'm thinking is like how long was she going to pretend

she was a teenager was she going to like keep moving and like pushing it back until she was like 30 you know she

actually faked her birth certificate actually like she went over the top like she literally went to the extent of faking her birth certificate to try and

make her seem younger that actually comes up here in a minute like the fact that she did that like yeah I don't know what the game plan was it feels like

there's not a lot of strategy here but it didn't work like it matter what it was but actually Gypsy seems kind of

cool like this is the part where it's like not so Sinister as like she gets s to comics and she goes to comiccons and

she meets guys there and like Do's all this stuff and that's actually where it goes sideways her mom finds out that

she's at this like hotel room with this guy at a ComicCon and she shows up and she brings a forged birth certificate

that I think said she was like 15 or 14 or something along those lines and just shoved in this guy's face saying like

hey you ever contact her again and you're going to jail for the rest of your life like this is going to be statutory rape situation like it was

fake like she was 18 like she was an adult and the mom faked his birth certificate and dragged her back home so

that was an ongoing thesis here is like her finding slivers of escape and then

being drug back to this hellish existence it was after this situation

that Gypsy meets the other I'm going to call protagonist of the story who's a guy

named Nicholas go John they met online and they grew

rather close with one another close enough to where the two started discussing getting married at one point and they would eventually meet in person

and kick off like a sexual relationship between the two of them apparently Gypsy

was like very self-aware what was going on in this situation so like she told uh Nicholas what was happening with the mom

and this is when they started kind of plotting out how to just get D out of

the the equation apparently mhm so part of this was we escape the other part was

we kill her so like it was like a balancing of two ideas and the idea was that we got to go with that we kill her

situation because that's the only way to be truly free of this woman it's like again I also want to kill her I never

met this woman in my life I would gladly hold her head under water until she stopped breathing like she sounds like the worst human like

I mean at the very least she should be in jail like she should not have a child admit she should be dead admit you admit

no no no I agree with you I think she I think I think she better off without her you know she's a terrible human being I

know this is a pattern for you but um but no I think at the very least she should not have that child like she

should not be allowed to yeah so gross so by this point Gypsy is like obviously

fully aware there's a life outside of what she's been experiencing she's out this like I mean good for her thank God

for the internet sometimes yeah no kidding no kid sometimes [ __ ] the internet but sometimes good job internet

yeah yeah totally totally and you know at this point she'd

been she understand I mean I know she doesn't know how old she is but you get that like you don't Vibe with like I

know I don't Vibe with like a 15-year-old you know what I mean like I don't need to you don't have to tell me I'm 38 like I know I don't there's a

difference there right and so she understood that things weren't exactly what they were and she kind of EV all Beyond it

so I will say this I love what Nicholas ended up doing to DD I think it's

awesome like I want to make Christmas cards with him stabbing her to death and send to all my friends and family but I

also think it's a little [ __ ] up because it's kind of like like you don't even know this woman in

is his life is his life ruined essentially yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah life in prison first murder like he's

done he's done for but it's like like I love what he did but I'm also like

man you could also just tell her like hey let's like go to Cancun you know

like it like wasn't his it wasn't his responsibility or job to do that but like because no because so many people

failed her I feel like yeah all the doctors doctors psychologists

therapists it's funny it's funny you said that because like the dad and the Stepmom who

was being poisoned consist L when all this ends up happening they were like

yeah she deserved it like literally her dad and her stepmom were like we're glad that she's dead she deserved this I mean

I don't I mean I I have like family members who are annoying but like I don't have anyone like deeply deeply

toxic like that's a whole different thing yeah yeah well this all escalates

in June of 2015 uh Gypsy and Nicholas start kind of putting their plan of how to extricate

themselves under DD grip in action Gypsy basically lets n Nicholas in the house

while de is asleep she hands him a knife she hands him gloves she hands him duct like it was like a whole plan and the

idea was for Nicholas to kill DD like that's thing that's like interesting is like you go from this like extreme of

like I'm a goooo gaga baby to like let's [ __ ] kill the [ __ ] like it's just so

crazy how that flip happens but I can imagine the rage has to be over the top

I don't know what it's like my parents did not treat me like I was an invalid [ __ ] half my age yeah most my life

but like I can imagine her like the rage has to be so real that makes you like think that way

but um so Nicholas goes in the house and yeah the whole plan was Nicholas you do

this you go you kill Dee and yeah like it was it was it was a great outcome for

everybody in the world Nicholas ends up stabbing her 17 times in her bedroom until she dies which is [ __ ] awesome

like kudos to him um I want to be friends with him I don't want to have like a barbecue with him but like I'm G

to say again Nicholas is not a happy ending for him not totally not a happy ending for him but he's also [ __ ] up

because who would do that that's true right so not like not everyone would

just be like yeah totally it's like the whole the the joke that Juan laughed at that one time you just trip over [ __ ]

scumbags every now and then it's like I I how this guy's just like randomly I've

met a lot of women and and any number of them could have asked me to kill somebody I wouldn't have done it like

it's it's so overthe toop extreme it's true but uh this happens and then

shortly afterwards I mean they spend a few days in hotels then they make their way up to where Nicholas lives up in Wisconsin during this time uh apparently

Gypsy was logged into DD's Facebook account it would post comments like as

her and one of them was the [ __ ] is dead like it's just like you're the

worst criminal in the world you're the worst criminal that's ever existed and she would just post this stuff and so people started being like what's going

on like cuz think about everybody who knows him is like this sweet family of this invalid child and like now it's

like this [ __ ] is dead it's like what like where the [ __ ] from who even say that say those words who would say that

anyways much less like a child who's like an invalid at 12 years old so friends and neighbors started getting

concerned they call the police police ended up searching the house and they found de's body yeah I wrote down how

everybody when this happened was so concerned for Gypsy cuz everybody in the town was like this poor kid has no

options like whoever the fact that she's on here and the fact that her mom is dead means that she is probably on her

way to dying soon as well because she doesn't have have her medicine her air tanks were at home her wheelchairs like

how is this kidnaps yeah all of it oh totally and so everybody's everybody's

mostly just concerned about the kid uh one of the one of gypsy's friends who was in town and knew about Nicholas

mentioned that they were like kind of a thing and police started looking into him and they reached out to Facebook and

asked Facebook to run IP traces on DD's Facebook account and they ran the traces

because the posts were so unusual that like it obviously Drew red flags and

they were like these were all originating from Wisconsin and they knew that she was seeing a guy from Wisconsin

they're like oh this is Gypsy and they end up going to Wisconsin there they ended up arresting them and

it was obvious like these were not master criminals they were kids they were scared kids it's I know the crime sounds brutal but it's like they were

just stupid kids like you know Nicholas is is is a kid gypsy was like more than a kid like I don't even know how to

explain like she was like so stunted in her growth and her development like so so they immediately caved and admitted

what they ended up doing everybody admits that the plan was for Nicholas to go in the house it was unanimous like both

Nicholas and Gypsy were like Yep this was the plan like they all came together on that piece of it

and they what I found really interesting about this case was that the prosecution could have pursued the death penalty so

Missouri has the death penalty as an option and this was going to be a first G murder charge they ended up deciding

that they're not going to pursue like this is so weird this is so beyond the

pale of anything we've ever seen that like we can't we can't do this and so they thought it would be like an

abnormal degree of punishment to pursue the death penal so they didn't regardless Nicholas was ultimately found

guilty as I mentioned earlier and he got life in prison which like again thank you Nicholas for murdering this woman

the world is better for you having done it and also just like dude you could have just gone on to the next match on

Tinder like you didn't the fact that you wanted to do this is like a little bit weird so you're not

wrong I was writing if I if I met a girl on Bumble tomorrow who said kill my mom i'' be like yeah maybe should think

about this a little bit yeah hopefully you would not do it how old was he when he did it I don't know I I don't know

what what is I don't know if you I mean you do dumb things when you're young but I also never killed anybody so it

doesn't count as my dumb things you never killed anyone no no

never not yeah the murderer was in

2015 how old is is Nicholas he's 33 now so in 2015 how many

years ago was that that was eight years ago yeah eight years ago so he's 33 now

so he would have been 25 all right I mean that's old enough to know yeah yeah

yeah if he was like 15 you know I'd be like well blah blah blah I mean again

it's it's complicated because like yes she needed to go but also no you should

not like you should leave it to other people you should never be the person who does it yeah totally yeah yeah so uh yeah

Nicholas ends up getting life in prison which like sucks again Gypsy got off

pretty light she ended up getting a secondary murder charge in 10 years in prison one of the things that Gypsy said

I read this quote while she was incarcerated she said I feel like I'm more free in prison than with than

living with my mom because now I'm allowed to just live as a normal woman like like she let her just like walk

around dude like she's she literally feel feels like prison is like freedom

for her like that's so and like there was nothing there was nothing in her

experience that would make her feel like there was some for her to go because like there were adults around her all the [ __ ] time and no one did anything

yeah you know whether or not they were like afraid of Dee or believed Dei or like didn't want to intrude or like just

wanted to not deal with her like whatever but like dozens dozens of capable adults were around her and

didn't help her see it didn't help her she could could big whatever I think

like I think like a I don't think Gypsy should have gotten any Jael time and I don't think Nicholas should have either

but I also don't want Nicholas to be my neighbor because if I sneeze the wrong way he might [ __ ] kill me too like I

he just he just seems really easygoing with the stabbing people to death peace but like yeah it's just like as a

society we should decide who we put into a forest and we all hunt and Dei was one

of those people that should have been like the running man that we just put into a forest and we all just pursue and kill try and kill that is not um not the

moral of the running man just I want did I get the wrong did I do the wrong movie

yes no no that is the running man but I'm saying that the moral of the running man is not we should put someone out and

everyone just hunt them together the moral of that is that it's bad in this case it's not that

bad like in this case can we make a pass for this case actually juster boy this

case and that other guy that I talked about those three can go into the running man this is becoming a pattern for

you um so yeah Gypsy ends up getting 10 years on second recharges uh and you

know what's funny is like she actually ended up getting married last year so in June of 2022 she ended up getting married to some random guy so the guy

that killed the mom man this is what guys men especially younger men if you're listening to me never do

a thing for women that could impact your life because it will like they will move

on and you'll be stuck with it this guy killed a woman for the girl he loved and

that he's in jail for the rest of his life and she's married to someone else like just don't do it just don't do it

you disagree with me I don't know I just feel like you're being a little to toxic

masculinity right there because like you can do stuff for other people but don't

break the law for someone how's that yeah that's that's a good middle that's good middle ground yeah that's not toxic

masculinity that's more like just like I don't know but I feel like validation and blah blah blah yeah

he's yes yes his life is ruined every a lot of Liv are ruined but not gypsies her life is better but but

that's my point is that his life is ruined I know in her life isn't I know

but he did it for her so like well I'm saying just like think twice like don't don't say never

to do something for someone don't do NE yeah NE that's extreme not never but like if it gets the point when a girl is

handing you a knife at midnight if she unlocks a door to her mom's bedroom yes think twice just think she will marry

another man and you will be in jail for the rest of your life like that's what I'm saying it's 100% true yes um so yeah

that was that's basically how the story ends she's still in jail obviously he's in jail for the rest of his life like

he's not going to get out anytime soon uh this happened in 2015 so in theory she will have served her entire sentence

and be released in about 2 years she might get off a little bit early she might be getting off like in the next like year but that's gypsy's story and

like I said I definitely and the world is a better

place because DD is dead and that's hard to say but I truly think that yeah she

just did a lot of bad things awful human built nonprofits out of God knows how much money built hospit

oh totally I forgot about that too yeah where could have G to help someone else dude took a a home out of habitat for

which could have gone to like somebody who actually needed a home like she was a scumbag like she was just garbage

wrapped in skin like through and through but anyways she's dead thank God thanks

Nicholas hope you're listening yeah if you're listening right to us tell her agent

oh my gosh so funny so funny that is uh yeah that is

my story and I wish I had Taylor because you mentioned it like I wish I had looked it up because at the very end of

this I was like the ultimate cause of D's behavior is and then I looked it up and it's Munch Housen syndrome by proxy

which I earlier called Munch Housen proxy by whatever um but I I but I

didn't go into the weeds of researching what it actually was or many instances of there of it there was but uh that

would be yeah that could be an interesting second second part of this yeah I'm sure there's a lot